Talk of democracy, civil liberties, and human rights should not be carried out in vain; Egyptians need to come out and speak up against the barbarity of sexual violence.
Natasha Smith is one of the many reasons why I am a feminist and why Egypt still has a long way to go as it continues its revolutionary journey.
The detailed and harrowing account of Natasha’s unfortunate ordeal has left many women reeling, ashamed and disgusted. Prominent journalists and feminists took to twitter to express their disgust at the sexual assault which took place in the very heart of Egypt’s revolution – Tahrir Square.
Her brave and courageous openness about her experience should not be called an eye opener. The eyes are already open, but, in Egypt, sexual harassment, assault, rape and other forms of sexual violence are unfortunately ignored or selectively dismissed. Some are ignored for risk of shame and tarnishing the reputation of the girl or man, and in many cases, there is utter denial of the incident. Just as Natasha’s piece describes, the apathetic reaction and subsequent attitude of doctors and nurses, at the hospital where she was being treated in the aftermath, means many Egyptian women are forced to remain silent about their own experiences for fear or certainty that their story will fall on deaf ears. Add to that the risk of interrogation regarding their marital status and whether one is a virgin or not: such questions can only further add insult to injury and alludes to the idea that the victim could be blamed.
Natasha’s experience, with that of Lara Logan and countless other western and Egyptian women who endure sexual harassment, is also indicative of the attitude of a religiously and culturally conservative society that has overlooked the severity of the nature of sexual violence and its implications. A society and culture that advocates a sense of purity and shame with regards to the treatment of oneself and of its fellow human beings, informed by Islamic tradition and principles, has some serious deep underlying issues which need to be addressed if Egypt is to move forward and make solid progress.
If denial of incidents of sexual violence and blaming the victim is the norm of how these incidents are viewed and consequently dealt with, then if anything has to change, it is society’s awareness of and attitude towards sexual violence, support and counsel for victims and punishment of perpetrators. However, Natasha’s account and Egyptian women fearful of voicing their own experiences demonstrates the rarity of such resolve.
A common notion of feminists and commentators of the Arab world claims, that, the underlying cause of this behaviour of men towards vulnerable women goes much deeper to the male psyche in the Arab world where women are still treated as second class citizens against their male counterparts. This understanding is also informed by misinterpreted and man-made Islamic traditions juxtaposed with old Bedouin ideas where women are subjugated to obey, and their individual freedom is curtailed.
The reverence of man in religion and culture has culminated in a centuries old attitude, which has only purported to obstinate the progress of women in wider society. Additionally, the evolution of religious forces over time has tightened man’s grip and control over women. Consequentially creating a society where some men feel women are at their disposal, and therefore, can treat a woman how they please: an attitude that is deeply entrenched in their mind and will be very difficult to eradicate.
To counter such attitudes, feminists, and women have worked hard to depict their image of how a woman should be perceived. Religious fanatics and Islamists have all spurted rhetoric about the vulnerability and value of a woman, and how she needs to be protected. The veil is symbolic of these ideals, but has only further caged women to another submissive religious role – many have adopted this wilfully. However, the progressive cultural and social status of women in Egypt and the Arab world still remains far out of reach. Women also carry the burden of responsibility to make sure her reputation remains intact and that of her family’s. However, when a man lays a hand on a woman, what happens to his reputation?
On the whole, the acts of a few bad apples do not represent Egypt. Natasha attests to this, so can many Egyptians and I can too, having experienced life in Egypt and gauging the cultural lifestyles of many Egyptians.
However, sexual assault in Egypt is endemic and chronic. It is not just someone groping a lady on the street, or on a busy tram or bus, it also functions as a form of torture. Sex as a subject matter is increasingly suppressed in Egypt, it is still very taboo, hence the rarity of open discussion about sexual violence. Egyptians can change their attitudes, and can change how they choose to perceive sexual violence as a menace in their society. Again, this is up to the nation that has just democratically elected their first President in nearly 30 years. So talk of democracy, civil liberties, and human rights should not be carried out in vain and Egyptians need to come out and speak up against this barbarity.
It is therefore encouraging to know that Natasha has not allowed this incident to cease her mission to expose sexual violence and increase awareness of it. She is indeed a courageous young girl, who despite her own experience will hopefully be a catalyst for real change in Egypt and the rest of the Arab world in countering sexual violence and empowering more women to fight it.
Tagged Egypt, Feminism, Lara Logan, Natasha Smith, Revolution, sexual violence, Taboo, Tahrir Square, women
Ahmed kJuly 1, 2012 at 6:23 pm
Sorry to say that but this young woman aint saying the truth
No one saw her at tahrir square and no witnessed what she is talking about, the square was full of religious people from Muslim brotherhood and salafies and some protesters who will never ever commit such crime and even if this happened by some outlaws they will be killed for doing so by those religious people and protesters
Also Tahrir square isnt Las vegas! anything happens in Tahrir square doesnt stay there! it is transferred right away to the whole world through twitter and facebook and all egyptian news websites and also there is a sat channel broadcasting 24/7 from tahrir square called “Aljazeera live Egypt” and Natasha’s story wasnt mentioned at all except by the so called victim!
This Student is exaggerating and lying and thought about that nice story to chase her 15 min of fame
Not mentioning that her boyfriend asked for donations to help her recover on her websites before people start commenting on that donation request saying she made that story up to get money and donation and i still have that page open on my blackberry but then she deleted hat donation page and posted a thank you page
MEReportingJuly 2, 2012 at 12:10 am
@Ahmed k Your reasoning is bullshit. No-one saw her? How can you begin to qualify that? And these people would ‘never commit such crime’? How utterly and disgustingly naive. How can you defend a group of people you do not know because of their religious affiliation? And to do so at the expense of a rape victim, shame on you.
Anything that ‘happens’ in Tahrir Square is only reported on if journalists witness it. In crowds of thousands where there could be tens of journos the fact that it was ‘missed’ is hardly surprising. Do you expect her to have contacted BBC/AJ as soon as it happened? It’s impossible to see how you use the fact that the media did not report on it as evidence the woman fabricated it.
Aside from the question of truth (which I don’t view to be in any way useful), this throws light on the very real problem of sexual abuse in Egypt. Denying this act does not fix that problem and seems like a misguided attempt to ignore a very real issue.
Have a think.
Ahmed kJuly 2, 2012 at 4:47 am
@MEReporting
I dont deny there is SH in Egypt! but this incident is unconfirmed!
Usually when anything happens at tahrir square is posted on Facebook and twitter right away esp. that night there were at least 250000 people there and the security measures were so tight and no thugs were let inside the square!
I am 95% sure that this story is exaggerated in one way or another and also her Boyfriend James asking for donation to help her recover although all the medical expenses and any other expenses is fully paid by her insurance company in Great Britian! maybe he wanted to go to spain afterwards with her so they thought of exaggerating this story and get donations from all over the world and that will pay for their vacation!!
Really Natasha aint telling the truth and you cant rely on just one side of the story! i am not defending religious people or defending egypt or egyptians at tahrir square i am just speaking out of logic and facts! and i am not denying that SH exist in Egypt same as it exists everywr and it has to stop!
TasssssJuly 2, 2012 at 11:20 am
@Ahmed k I believe this incident is confirmed as far as Natasha’s account is concerned. I don’t think she would write a blog piece about it if it hadn’t really happened to her. Are you suggesting that she is treating this as some kind of joke in order to gain publicity? Regarding the donation page. Natasha has taken that page down after receiving numerous complaints on her website and her twitter page.
How can you claim that the tight security was able to distinguish the thugs from regular people? It is possible that a bunch of men entered Tahrir Square, and you wouldn’t think they were thugs at all, until they behaved like thugs. It’s not as though they have “thug” written across their forehead, and not exactly going to tell security of their plans to cause trouble.